Imperfect World-A perfect world to live!

We always think that, I wish everything could be perfect! Our life, Our Partner, Our bank account, Our Jobs..I mean everything! but have we ever asked ourselves what happens when actually everything becomes perfect!?


Lets us now dive into the world of imagination.... A world which is actually perfect.. Close your eyes and think .. (actually believe).. that everything around you is perfect.... Now look around, we are living in a place which is a paradise (some would say heaven), green all around, an owned lake, an owned waterfall even!, you are sitting on couch with a pleasant weather, a sunny day with your family or loved ones.. with cheers of children and so on... let your imagination go wild to create that perfect world in your mind..  Also Imagine around that every Kid in this world scoring 100% marks and getting 1st rank!. Imagine any sport played and the result is all wins no loses!. Imagine everybody is the boss and everybody is an employee!. Imagine everything is free! and everything is easily available!



Now comes the interesting part.... IMAGINE living the same life over and over and over again as since everything is perfect it means that it can't be changed or should I say it can't be made better..
Let us take your partner for that sake... Since he/she is perfect you don't see any more changes i.e. no change in looks, no change is styles, no change in personality.. and so on and so forth... 
Let us talk about your kid, He scored highest marks in his class but so did the other kids in his class..
Let us talk about your parents, they gave you everything you liked no restrictions at all!

Now comes the round of questions...  Why do you think you work hard and feels the passion in your bones that drives you through ?  Why do you love your partner and what makes that love go deeper and deeper? What makes you love you parents love go deeper and deeper?? What makes you use your brains to think, to run to lets say create a portfolio what makes your money grow at a rapid rate??  What makes you wake up early in the morning and make you exercise even though you actually hate to do it?? How will you measure success as everybody in the perfect world is successful?? How will you rate your achievements... actually the question should be is there anything left to be achieved??

So lets us discuss imperfection for moment, the world around us as is (the so called imperfect world!).........
Let  us take you partner for a moment. Lets say your partner can't cook well and you know that but You are in still in love,  now one day that partner cooks for you and the food is delicious wouldn't that love that you feel go deeper??!!

Now let us take a example of a kid, a younger brother or sister or whoever.. He/she is good at everything but never able to secure more than 60% in his exams and then after hardwork and dedication scores not only higher but also secure first rank!, don't you feel proud ?!!

Let us take your job for that matter... You are unhappy with your job, you think you are been overburdened with work while your senior sits Ideal on his seat, and all of sudden you are promoted for your good work , don't you feel motivated and seeks to even work harder??!!

So in short The simple answer to all above is Imperfections!. That's right!! the drive to make things better, the drive to achieve more! make us tick our life, that bring every emotion that we carry into us.  We  always strive to make our little world perfect, to change what we have, to change what we are... and in the process find so many moments that makes our life worth living! 

Love-To Find or To Discover or to Realize?!!

I asked myself a question what is love & where to find it. Is it a feeling that can only be felt or is it that tickle which you feel when you see someone special or is it a thing that can be seen..... then I realized the answer..... LOVE is every thing, your feeling for ur parents is love, ur feeling for a friend is love, ur feeling for a girl/boy friend is love,ur feeling for nature, music, cars, job is love even ur feeling for enemy is negative love................

People always say I will find that love, but when somebody ask them what actually they meant by it they find it difficult to find the right answer. People say love is blind, but they fail to understand why the lover has fallen in love. People say love make people insane, but they fails to understand the pain of loosing a loved one. People say  love changes a person completely, but they fails to understand it is not the love it is the willingness to not loose the loved one changes a person.

 
So now comes few very interesting questions... What ever happens around you is it not god's love for you?? so why always we are always seeking love while it is all around us.....?? rather than going after unknown love why don't we enjoy love that is around us..... ? why are we always looking for someone new while the ones we are with are sufficient to live our life happily ?? why people don't understand that love is not about always looks and glamor it is actually a mutual understanding between two people ?? why people sometimes even fails to understand love?? why don't they acknowledge there love for someone, even though living apart form that someone give pain??

I guess there could be many reason, like our unsatisfied life style, out community, our greed, our jealousy, our needless desires, our ignorance, lack of time management/lack of time... There could be many reasons but the main reason is that we never care about somebody close to us because we take it for granted that that person will always be there for us, and when that person is gone we then realize the loss is so big that it can make us Insane.


So guys stop looking for love and feel it around, be realistic in you needs, be happy with what you have with little desires and trust me love will find its way to you when you starts enjoying it rather than searching it :D oh & remember great people has always said " LOVE IS ALL AROUND YOU ALL YOU NEED TO DO IS OPEN YOUR ARMS & LET LOVE ENTER INTO YOUR LIFE ".......................

Heights of Luck

hi,

This is my first blog ever, so any mistakes (in grammer, Spelling or something less or not completely understandable) i ask apologies in advance, & suggestions & critics are welcomed so that i can improve on my blogging skills.


Ok lets begin......

first of all i would like to tell, that there are some ads in this world that seams bullshit but they sometimes do happen in life, u can call this luck or fate whatever u want...

so here is one case with me:


on thursday i got a call from thomson digital that u have been called for the last interview with the E-GM (executive general manager or whatever he was), so i got ready & left for the same (oh i was in jaipur & the interview was in noida, hehe).

hmmm so reached there in time i.e. 12 P.M. slightly tired (coz i can't get a gud sleep in bus) was been asked to sit in the waiting area, i was completely sure i will get rejected ( coz i knew no matter i how gud i was with tech skills i am "-10" in G.K.), so i waited & waited, had my lunch, then coffee, again coffee... finally we ( 5 people for the same post) got the chance for the interview at 6 P.M. .

Mine was second among the lot, went in there & the interview began (there were 2 H.R. girls at my back & the E-GM):

E-GM: robindra jain is that how i pronounce.
Me: yeah.

E-GM: from where are you
me: Raj.

E-GM: what day is it.
me: 11th(too eager to answer without completely understanding the question), no thursday, no wed, no no its friday.. friday (shit i really messed it up.... )

E-GM: u gave me 4 answer now how come
me: m tired after a journey & 6 hours wait here so( wtf kinda answer was that another mess up)...

E-GM: ohk u want me to call u other day.
me: no its ok i m ready now(like i was huh...).

E-GM: sure?!! starring at me like he gonna eat me
me: yeah. (starring back ( main bhi kam dheet nahi hoon))

E-GM: hmm.. so tell me who is C.M. of Raj
me: Mr. ashok gehlot (duh ... itna bhi nahi pata hoga kya)

E-GM: which party
me: cong. (hehe yeah i m getting along fine now)

E-GM: ohk tell me who is the president of france
me: (WTF!!! i had to say i getting along fine hmm)(oh i have already told u that my G.K is like -10) i dont know

E-GM: what !!! u dont know him.. (starring really strongly now)
me: no sir (me starring back but thinking sala ab to gaya ye interview)

E-GM: ohk tell me who was the running contender for vice-president of U.S.
me: (I dont know who is the the vice president of U.S. let alone the contender) i dont know sir.. actually i have very little interest in politics.

E-GM: are this is G.K. basics if u dont know this then what u know.. ohk tell me the capital of australia.
me: (WTF: where this question came from) i dont know sir.

E-GM: ohk tell me of U.S.
me. Washington D.C (in confused tone...)

E-GM: pooch rahe ho bata rahe ho.
me: bata raha hoon

E-GM: meherebani, acha tell me capital of delhi..
me: (abe ab delhi ki kya capital hogi sala iski to koi cities hi nahi hai...) sir delhi is capital of India, but it has no capital of its own.

E-GM: wrong answer " Delhi is capital of Delhi"
me: haan ??!!!

E-GM: yes dear if Delhi is a State then it has to have a capital then .... other wise (he said something abt shila dixit would curse me for this one...) (like i care huh....)
E-GM: ohk tell me the smallest country in the world
me: vatican city (chalo kuch to aaya)

E-GM: what kinda population lives there..
me: (abe ye kaisa sawal hai ...) i said followers of jesus (ab kuch to bolna hi tha na), pope...

E-GM: who is the current pope over there.
me: (abe mujhe kya pata kaun hai sala) i dont know sir.

E-GM: u dont know! (he then gave me the answer which i don't remember still hehe)
E-GM: acha, where is it situated
me: i dont know sir (with more embarrassment in my heart but little on my face)

E-GM: its in Rome
me: but sir Rome itself is a country how can a country be in a country ??!!

E-GM: i m sorry to say that Rome is a city not a country.
me: (o teri.. ismain bhi locha ho gaya ab to pakka gaya ye interview)..

E-GM: (cont..) & Rome is the capital of Italy.
E-GM: Ok tell me how is U.K. divided
me: (abe yar ab ye kahan se aa gaya sala, ab to sala jeevan jhand ho gaya chal chalte hain) I dont know sir. (he asked the same question to the H.R. sitting at my back & guessed what even they didn't knew this one hehe) (ab yar kisko dhyan rehta itna kuch...)

E-GM: ohk tell me how many states are there in India.
me: (abe yar abhi to 28 thi shayad ek aur divide hui thi recently to 29 ho gayi hogi, sala itna division ho gaya ki track rakna hi mushkil hai) 29..

E-GM: ( sala kya aadmi hai isko ye bhi nahi pata..)can u name them!!
me: (sala mereko number sahi nahi pata naam ky khak pata hoga) sir can't name them all.

E-GM: tell me something u know bacha how can i hire u if u cant give me right answers..!!!
me: dropped my eyes a little & gazed back at him & smiled.

E-GM: ok tell me who is the director of avatar
me: (he pronounced it completely wrong, so pata nahi kaun se jamane ki film hai ) i said surprisingly i haven't heard of this movie .

E-GM: are tumne ye nahi suna abe kya ho tum & then asked the same ques. to the girls behind me (even they didn't knew hehe who BTW got the movie name so i heard the correct pronunciation)

me: oh avatar sir i know this movie but i haven't seen it(which was true BTW).
E-GM: tu bata kya poochun tujhe jis se tujhe main hire karun aise to main hire nahi kar sakta na..
me: yes sir u right ..

E-GM: are dont be embarrassed but u dont know anything..!!
me: sir m not embarrassed is just that now i know i have to work on my G.K. skills more now so will work hard on it.... (still i was looking in his eyes confidently (i guess..) & smiling )

E-GM: Ohk u wait outside i will talk to u later.

after about 1:30 hours he called me back & said
E-GM: u know u r a complete "ullu"
me: yes sir but i now know how can i improve & will work on it.

E-GM: hmm u know m still hiring u because u were confident while facing me in the interview but u have to work really hard, "aur agar tu nahi sudhara na 6 mahine main to beta main nikal dunga tujhe)

me: sure sir (abe yar chalo job to milli aur waise bhi jab job main perform karunga to wo kuch nahi kahega kyunki after all m gud in tech...)

E-GM: chal ja aur bahut mehenat karna
me: sure sir (abe yar ye to wohi ho gaya "tata DOCOMO ka interview wala ad" hehe)


i guess life has ways of showing things to us. what say...??
now is the start of a new journey for me i hope this path is full of life & fun with lot of learnings. :)